A few doses of "Condensed Intimacy"


Condensed Intimacy - July 2023

Dispatches from the Expansive Intimacy podcast

The word "tension" has been on my mind lately.

Summertime often leads me to look at the tension between the time I put into my work and time spent resting, relaxing, and playing.

Of course, I feel the tension that seems to be continually tightening around the political, climate, and economic realms here in the U.S. and around the world.

I'm also in the middle of a 6-month course where I'm learning about somatic meditation practices and how to understand the way energy moves through my body. Or more to the point, how my body builds up tension when I don't let energy move through it.

Over the past several weeks, I've been practicing how to release tension using some simple and powerful techniques. It feels amazing. So much so that I decided I wanted to give you an easy way to check it out for yourself via this short video:

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Did you try that out?

Do you feel a little less tense?

I hope so!

Ok... let's do a speed round on this past month's episodes and how they help us understand where tension comes from to begin with and what else we can do with it.

Starting with...

Drew Tarvin

On the Power of Humor to Diffuse Tension (and so much more):

"Laughing increases blood flow through the body, and it decreases muscle tension."

Jim Young - Solo

On the Dangers Men Face at Midlife:

"There's cardiovascular disease, other health conditions that stress causes when it sits in our body and goes unprocessed and unacknowledged."

Elisabeth Kristof

On the Risks of Being Overly Independent:

"Weave in a few simple tools once a day for two or three minutes, to start to understand that you have a nervous system and it's driving your behavior."

Matt Bush

On the Adaptability of the Body & Brain:

"S-A-I-D is an acronym that means Specific Adaptation to Imposed Demand. And it basically means the body gets better at what it does"


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Jim Young

As I grew from boyhood into manhood, I was handed a set of cultural beliefs that told me to go it alone, never ask for help, and to prove my manliness at every turn. Today, I'm here to call bullsh*t on all that.

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